7 Ways Acne Controls Your Life (and How to Fight Back)

By Alicia • Mar 6, 2015 MD

Acne can affect your life in many different ways. In fact, there may be times when you feel like breakouts completely dictate your choices, schedule, and self-confidence. But you don't have to let skin struggles hold you back. There are practical, empowering ways to handle the uncomfortable situations acne creates. Here are 7 ways acne might be controlling your daily life, along with actionable steps to take your power back.

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1. The Way You Wear Your Makeup

Acne often dictates how you approach your daily beauty routine. You might find yourself layering heavy foundation to cover up active breakouts, or conversely, skipping cosmetics altogether out of fear that products will clog your pores. The key is finding balance. Start by prioritizing skin health and seeking guidance from trusted resources like the American Academy of Dermatology if over-the-counter treatments aren't giving you results. When choosing cosmetics, look for non-comedogenic formulas designed specifically for acne-prone skin.

When selecting makeup for acne-prone skin, keep these quick tips in mind:

  • Choose products labeled non-comedogenic or oil-free.
  • Clean your makeup brushes weekly to prevent bacterial buildup.
  • Opt for mineral foundations with zinc oxide or titanium dioxide.
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2. Your Clothing Choices

Body breakouts on your chest, shoulders, or back can dictate what you wear every single morning. If you have acne in these areas, you may feel self-conscious about wearing clothing that shows your skin. While that is understandable, it helps to remind yourself that body acne affects millions of people across all age groups. Adopting a targeted cleansing routine with salicylic acid or benzoyl peroxide body washes can make a major difference over time. You can decide not to let your acne hold you back and wear the clothing that you love.

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3. Your Hairstyle

Acne can control the hairstyle that you wear. You may be choosing to wear a hairstyle that you really don't like because it hides your acne or because you feel like you can hide behind it. However, hair oils and styling products left against your face can actually worsen breakouts around the hairline. Learn more about maintaining healthy hair and skin in our guide on dermatologist-approved skincare tips. Go for the hairstyle that you really love instead of hiding behind it.

| Area Affected | Common Trigger | Quick Action Step | | --- | --- | --- | | Forehead | Hair products & oils | Keep hair off face & wash hats | | Chest & Back | Sweat & tight clothing | Shower immediately after workouts | | Cheeks | Phone screens & pillowcases | Clean screens daily & change linens |

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4. You Avoid Social Situations

Acne can control you by making you avoid social situations. You may feel so self-conscious that you avoid going out with friends or hanging out with others. This is where you have to realize something: you have acne, but acne does not have you. Stepping out and enjoying social events helps break the cycle of isolation. Make a decision to not let acne control your social life.

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5. It Affects Your Love Life

Acne can also affect your love life. You may be so embarrassed about your acne that you don't think you can have a romantic relationship. Medical insights from experts at the Mayo Clinic show that acne is a common, treatable medical condition, not a personal flaw. Remember that your acne is something you have, but it isn't who you are. It is also something that will most likely improve as your skin matures.

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6. You Avoid the Spotlight

Your acne may make you avoid the spotlight. You may have a secret desire to try out for school plays, lead a group project, or present at work, but your acne holds you back. Here is something to remember: everyone is self-conscious about something. It is also very likely that you notice your acne much more than other people notice it. Taking bold steps despite breakouts is key to building long-term confidence.

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7. Your Self-Esteem Takes a Hit

This is probably the worst thing about dealing with acne. Your self-esteem can take a big hit. While acne can be frustrating to deal with, remember that it's just a skin issue, not who you are. If you ever feel like your skin is dragging down your confidence, remember the strategies discussed above, such as staying socially connected (as mentioned in point #4) or prioritizing healthy habits. You are a beautiful, special person who isn't going to let acne hold you back. You have to make the choice to remind yourself how wonderful you are.

Here are three daily reminders to safeguard your confidence:

  • Your worth is separate from your skin's appearance.
  • Progress in skin healing takes patience and consistency.
  • Focus on how you feel rather than seeking perfection.

These are 7 ways acne can control your life and some ways to fight back. How does acne most impact your life? Share your stories here.

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  • Jennapher

    2015-03-06T13:58:45.039Z

    Great advice, Alicia! Every generation deserves a reminder that this scourge of the skin will probably affect most people at one time or another. And that acne need not dictate who you are or how you love your life. And if you have suffered from acne over a prolonged period, you know what that means. Don't put off consulting a dermatologist. A truly good dermatologist can prescribe antibiotics and topic creams that can greatly decrease acne and in many cases get rid of it. And a truly good dermatologist will tell you whether all you need is a regimen of products that are available over-the-counter. DO NOT allow acne to dictate your wardrobe, or choose your hairstyle! Your self-confidence can be trampled by acne, your self-esteem can trounced! DO NOT allow acne to define who you are! We put so much value in appearance, we associate the very best qualities to the people who are the sexiest and most attractive...and we know that this is a fallacy. But we also know that looks do matter, regardless of what anyone may say. But we learn that self-confidence and self-esteem can overwhelm physical beauty every time. NEVER forget that, just like beauty, acne is only skin-deep. And unlike the birthmark upon the face of Rappacini's Daughter, acne is not rooted to your heart❤️
  • Choclatelovee

    2015-03-08T00:24:16.309Z

    So true
  • Blitz

    2015-03-11T04:28:47.760Z

    I am 20 and still suffer with bad acne on my face, back, and chest. I hide it behind clothes and makeup, but am still fairly confident. Still, it's very frusterating
  • Damaria

    2015-03-06T22:52:33.353Z

    I need to remember this :) ...thanks
  • KaReN

    2015-03-06T11:04:43.908Z

    that scene when meg pops her zits is disguising lol!! funny cover picture.
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